Maria Ahlin – Let´s Talk Porn

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https://changingattitudes.co/porn

Souvislosti

,,Protože hladina dopaminu prudce stoupá s novými podněty, daří se pornu na internetu zastírat plíživé sexuální problémy celá léta, než mladí muži zjistí, že je s nimi něco v nepořádku. S každou neokoukanou sexuální scénou či ,,partnerkou” se dostaví další dávka dopaminu… dlouhodobé sledování porna je spojeno s úbytkem šedé hmoty v centrech, která zajišťují reakce mozku na odměny, a stejně tak souvisí s omezenou vnímavostí vůči erotickým fotografiím…při pravidelné konzumaci pornografie si mozek v podstatě vybuduje toleranci na tyto vzruchy… každodenní život a často také sex se stálým partnerem pak připadá takovému jedinci nudný a poskytuje mu méně uspokojení, a mozek časem vnímá porno jako jedinou stimulaci, která vlastně stojí za to. Jejich mozek, uvyklý internetové nabídce, vyžaduje konstantní přísun novinek…” (Philip Zimbardo, Nikita D. Coulombová – Odpojený muž, str. 96)

https://video.aktualne.cz/dvtv/pribyva-lidi-zavislych-na-pornu-muze-rozlozit-sexualni-zivot/r~01c810b6c1b911e8b5b20cc47ab5f122/

Tinder

https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/12/tinder-changed-dating/578698/

I pointed out to Hodges that when I was a freshman in college—all of 10 years ago—meeting cute people to go on a date with or to hook up with was the point of going to parties. But being 18, Hodges is relatively new to both Tinder and dating in general; the only dating he’s known has been in a post-Tinder world. When Hodges is in the mood to flirt or go on a date, he turns to Tinder (or Bumble, which he jokingly calls “classy Tinder”), where sometimes he finds that other UT students’ profiles include instructions like “If I know you from school, don’t swipe right on me.”

Hodges knows that there was a time, way back in the day, when people mostly met through school, or work, or friends, or family. But for people his age, Hodges says, “dating has become isolated from the rest of social life.”

Another woman fantasized to me about what it would be like to have a man hit on her in a bookstore … But then she seemed to snap out of her reverie, and changed the subject to Sex and the City reruns and how hopelessly dated they seem. “Miranda meets Steve at a bar,” she said, in a tone suggesting that the scenario might as well be out of a Jane Austen novel, for all the relevance it had to her life.

There’s a bit of a chicken-and-egg effect when it comes to Tinder and the disentanglement of dating from the rest of social life. It’s possible, certainly, that dating apps have erected walls between the search for potential partners and the normal routines of work and community. But it’s also possible that dating apps thrive in this particular moment in history because people have stopped looking for potential partners while they go about their work and community routines.

 

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